Stinker #1
What's the deal with Max? If I hear "don't want to" come out of his mouth one more time, I think my head is going to explode. All of the sudden he has become so moody. He always has to be right by me or he freaks out. Even if he sees a picture where I'm holding Jack he'll start crying, saying, "No! Daddy hold Jack! Mommy hold Max!" I can't seem to explain to him that it's just a picture! And when he says, "don't want to" I have no idea why he's saying it. He's just saying it. I'm not forcing him to eat brussels sprouts or anything when he says it. He'll just be standing there, nothing around him, and start crying. I have three possible theories to explain his recent behavior. 1) Jack has become more difficult (see Stinker #2) so Max has become more difficult to compete for attention. 2) Max has a case of separation anxiety. Since Blake is all of the sudden gone so much, he thinks I might leave him too. 3) He's just two.
Stinker #2
Then, to add to all the "don't want to's" around the house, there is also a constant, loud, high-pitched, pterodactyl scream. My sweet baby is becoming a monster, always wanting to be held (to compete with his brother or separation anxiety?), crying and screaming when Max gets too close to him when he'd used to just keep playing or move away, and most recently, throwing food. When he throws his food, Max makes me put Jack in time out, because that's what used to happen to him. Surprisingly, Jack doesn't get it. Also, he is a very demanding eater. When he doesn't like what I've given him or wants some more, he screams and screams and screams. Thus, we've started some baby sign to help Jack communicate more effectively--"more" and "all done." So far I've seen no progress. This, however, is all a problem if Jack actually decides to eat. For the past 24 hours he has refused to eat. He still drinks his milk, but nothing else. Nothing. No jarred baby food of any kind. And no real food--no peas, beans, pancakes, grapes, peaches, bananas, strawberries, etc. Not even any cheerios. Just eat Jack!
I know, I know. Poor me. :) I read in one of my parenting books that separation anxiety is actually proof of a child's healthy relationship with his parent. Maybe one day if my head doesn't explode I'll be able to see it like that.